Political Depolarization / Active Listening / Recognizing and Overcoming Biases
We all prefer to consider ourselves to be fair and unbiased. Yet the reality is that everyone harbors biases. They’re part of the way our brains are wired. Although some biases allow us to act fast, other biases can make us make prejudiced judgments, misunderstand people, and create walls in our lives and careers.
Being aware of and overcoming biases isn’t about being perfect—it’s about growing more aware of how your mind is being shaped and deciding to respond with more understanding and intentionality.
Bias is a tendency to slant in a certain direction, often without a rational basis. It can affect the way we think about people, situations, and information—sometimes unknowingly. There are biases which are overt and conscious, and others which are covert, in the sense that they operate subconsciously.
Most common types of bias are:
Unchecked bias may impact the manner in which we communicate, decide, promote or hire employees, and engage in lines of difference. Exclusion, misunderstanding, and lost opportunity are its implications. Irrespective of the fact whether you are a manager, educator, parent, or simply a part of your own community, ending bias is integral to establishing respectful and inclusive places.
The initial step is recognizing that you possess them—everybody does. Then, start noticing your own thoughts and choices.
Ask yourself:
Journaling, being mindful, and asking other people for feedback can help bring out patterns that you might not recognize yourself.
Bias frequently results when we make swift judgments. When you can, slow down and think for a moment before you decide or judge.
Read books, watch the media, and associate with people whose experiences differ from yours. The more mixed your exposure is, the richer your world view will be.
If you’re not sure why someone is thinking or acting a particular way, ask with curiosity—not judgment. This fosters understanding and eliminates assumptions.
Attempt to step into another person’s shoes. Empathy diminishes bias by allowing you to view people as individuals, not as stereotypes.
Identifying bias is a lifelong effort. The aim isn’t to eradicate all bias, but to control them in a conscious manner so that they don’t drive your actions in negative directions.
Biases are human—but so is the ability to learn, grow, and change. By becoming more aware of our biases and actively working to overcome them, we can make smarter decisions, build healthier relationships, and create a more inclusive world.
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